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    What are the signs that you are being played and why would someone do that?

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    If there ex is always where you two are at. You might be being play so there ex will get jealous and get back together with them.
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    Guess one of the signs is that they are always taking from you and offering little or nothing in return. Another would be that they are interested in only a few things ...

    Give and take are hallmarks of a relationship, friendships, or family. It will ebb and flow at times, howver, beware if it is out of balance.

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    Scenario: I work with a woman, we travel together, we buy each other gifts we spend a lot of time together we share a lot about our private lives but we just never get to that point of being intimate.

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    Quote Originally Posted by quack View Post
    Scenario: I work with a woman, we travel together, we buy each other gifts we spend a lot of time together we share a lot about our private lives but we just never get to that point of being intimate.
    Sounds like a friend to me. How is that being played?

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    She is always talking about the things she would like us to do if the time was right. She invites me over for drinks in her hotel room, etc.

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    Again, I ask .. How is she taking advantage? Is something hurting you, your relationships elsewhere? Playing to me means intentionally taking actions for your own ends. Is she just lonely and wants a friend?

    If you are uncomfortable, you can step back.

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    I want more and she knows I do. She gives all the indications that she wants more also but never goes there. By playing I was thinking more of someone who likes to get you going and then lets you stay there. Playing with my emotions? I don't understand why someone would enjoy teasing you just to watch you squirm.

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    Quote Originally Posted by quack View Post
    I want more and she knows I do. She gives all the indications that she wants more also but never goes there. By playing I was thinking more of someone who likes to get you going and then lets you stay there. Playing with my emotions? I don't understand why someone would enjoy teasing you just to watch you squirm.
    Or perhaps she likes you, but not in that way. Ask yourself why you are staying ...

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    You bring up some good points and questions. She is always calling me up to help her with something. Hang a door, help her move, help her paint etc. and then she does things like try on clothes for me to see, give me a thank you kiss, tells me she thinks about me at night. Why am I staying? I want a relationship with her but half the time I think she does too, and half the time I think she just needs me there for support and help. I'm confused!

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