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    when they only answer you when they feel like it

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    When you only get a call when they want something.

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    I don't like confusion and thoughts left hanging so why don't you find a pleasant moment and ask her directly how she views your relationship and how she feels about you. I know that I would appreciate knowing and not going around in circles. Figuring this out may help you both forward in one direction or another.... Please keep us posted I would like to know how this turns out...if you want.

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    When someone throws a jacket with the number five on it..and sticks you in a trap!

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    Kinda hard to play me, because Im the game...I make the rules!

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    Quote Originally Posted by lovemetender View Post
    Kinda hard to play me, because Im the game...I make the rules!
    Do NOT pass "go"..do not collect $200...go directly to jail!..there!

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    the question is not how do i know if...the question is - does a sexy lady want to play?

    I don't mind coming to work, but this eight hour wait to go home is just bull****...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Iceburn View Post


    Do NOT pass "go"..do not collect $200...go directly to jail!..there!
    Awwww I have no worries after all...I've got a get out of jail free card

    Quote Originally Posted by baseballguy View Post
    the question is not how do i know if...the question is - does a sexy lady want to play?
    Everyone is allowed to play my game.....but there are

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    Quote Originally Posted by quack View Post
    You bring up some good points and questions. She is always calling me up to help her with something. Hang a door, help her move, help her paint etc. and then she does things like try on clothes for me to see, give me a thank you kiss, tells me she thinks about me at night. Why am I staying? I want a relationship with her but half the time I think she does too, and half the time I think she just needs me there for support and help. I'm confused!
    Okay then ... I agree with the advice given above. You need to directly talk with her. Ask her EXACTLY what she is thinking, then determine if her actions and words align. It is possible that she only wants your friendship, but is afraid to lose it and thus does things and says things she thinks you want to hear in order to hang on. Open communication, setting expectations, and being willing to step back and be a friend if that is all she wants is important. A friendship IS a relationship. As yourself if you could only be her friend with no expectations of more. If not, then perhaps you are there for the wrong reasons ....

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    They just open there mouths

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