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    I do appreciate your thoughts and I understood your post clearly. I agree with much of what you said actually, I really do! I feel as if I have made you defend your stance and that was not my intention! I do not have a lot of examples of the good happy marriages working out with playtime here, but I do have a few!

    Because of that I feel generalities are a little unfair mostly because as a member I read a post and think "Hey that's not me! Please don't generalize and label us all!!" But don't get me wrong I am no hypocrite as I am sure I have posted generalities! I just think its good to say "some people" and not "all people or everyone" because this is the Shack and not the other sites. Like you, a lot of us are here because the other sites were not what we were looking for and this is a bit of a safe haven!


    And there truth is there are couples that are into the swinging lifestyle that are strong loving couples, they just like having sex with diffrent partners. On a diffrent site, more designed for kinky folk, I made friends with a woman that was an adult film performer. Her husband would go with her to filming. They also were very active in thier lifestyle community.

    Even in a good marriage you can be seeking something you can't nessary find in the marriage, for swinngers its variety. Even when they do it together.amd are fully aware of it. The couples I known to be on these sites, did it a little to spice things up and have fun. Wanting something outside the marriage with the knowledge of your spouse isn't cheating but it is finding an experince out side the marriage.

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    We all cheat in one sense of the word......I mean I cheat when I see that last slice of cake and just have to take a bite......

    The serious note to this is that while I am married to a pretty amazing guy, I tend to get bored or perhaps it is that damned over-active imagination I have. But I do have my boundaries and how I choose to use those boundaries tends to keep my attitude liberal........
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    In the end its all a matter of perspective....I mean who cares what others think, it is what you think...you can hide from others, can't hide from yourself.

    I tried playing hide and seek alone it is hard.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Beauty View Post


    I do appreciate your thoughts and I understood your post clearly. I agree with much of what you said actually, I really do! I feel as if I have made you defend your stance and that was not my intention! I do not have a lot of examples of the good happy marriages working out with playtime here, but I do have a few!

    Because of that I feel generalities are a little unfair mostly because as a member I read a post and think "Hey that's not me! Please don't generalize and label us all!!" But don't get me wrong I am no hypocrite as I am sure I have posted generalities! I just think its good to say "some people" and not "all people or everyone" because this is the Shack and not the other sites. Like you, a lot of us are here because the other sites were not what we were looking for and this is a bit of a safe haven!
    I understand what your saying...thanks for the reps! I see you can read between the lines...

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    If I cheat with a cheater, does that double negative mean we're not cheating?...*hopeful*

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    It didn't make me feel better when i did it. It didn't fix the HUGE problems in our marriage. In fact it just allowed us both to be stuck longer than we should have been. I personally won't do it again. I'm a different person when I'm in a relationship with respect and my needs are met. Plus, to be honest I'm super lazy and all that sneaking around to maintain a second relationship is just too much effort when I got it going on at home now.

    I get it though. When you tell someone with limited finances, kids, a life built together and they are just missing that little spark in their life- that little thang that puts a spring in your step....I get why people do it. I know why I did it. At the time of course.

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