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    LOL.. silly

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    Quote Originally Posted by Georgiagirl View Post
    LOL.. silly
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    i think you need to finalise your relationship with one before you even think of pursuing another!!

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    Hell girl Ive finalised mine when I saw you lol

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    I agree with Stacy, if you are thinking of having an affair or if you have met someone who you think you are in love with, finalize your marriage. It's okay to flirt and have a little fun but never take it to the next level

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    I'm not saying what is right and what is wrong, other people's relationships are something I keep well out of.

    Consider this scenario though -

    A couple are together, married or whatever, and they are very much in love, comfortable with each other, best friends....all the cliches.
    One of them unilaterally decides to give up physical sexual relations. Don't laugh - it is very common.

    Does the other partner, in his/her 50's, 40's or even 30's accept this, and accept that even though it is not his/her decision, he/she will from that day never have sex again? Does he/she end the relationship - a very loving relationship remember - just because of the sex, or do they find a "special friend"?

    I have read this question on other forums, and frankly found the indignant screamings of the "holier than thous" that "they must not ever ever cheat, they must end the relationship" - but these people of course will have never been in such a situation. How really can any of us make judgement unless we have been in that other person's shoes. Perhaps having a lover can be a good thing, or perhaps it should never be done.

    I would say "never say never", until it happens to you.

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    "never say never" is always my motto

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    always never say never

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    I did it when I was married.. I wasn't in love, I wasn't happy.. I was looking for something a little more.. and I found it.. it didn't help me.. it didn't make me any happier.. but to each his own.. I would not judge anyone for having done so.. it is a decision each person must make for themselves..



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    I personally would just end the relationship, but each to their own.

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