View Poll Results: Soul Mate? Fate? Neither?

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  • Neither

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Thread: Do you believe everyone has a soul mate? Do you believe in Fate?

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    Both for me too. I wish I could add more but I think the posts above me say it as well as you possibly can.....

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    I believe that, throughout our lives, we connect with various people on a very deep level in one or more aspects of our being. When we do, we've found a soulmate but we may have other soulmates relative to other aspects of who we are at the same time or at different times. I also believe that soulmates are not necessarily permanent because we all change over the course of our lives. The strongest soulmates are those with whom yours and their changes support each other and mirror the changing relationship. I don't believe in fate in the sense of an invisible hand guiding two people together. I do believe in coincidence and circumstance and being able to recognize them and act when they bring a potential soulmate into your life.

    Reality is that which must be endured by those with no imagination.

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    Fate.

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    I don't believe in either.. I believed once... and it fell apart... then again... and nothing happened... then I began to believe a final time... only to watch that belief crushed... I believe that you think you find something that fits.. but it takes work and understanding...

    no... I do not believe in a soulmate nor do I believe in fate... not anymore...



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    Quote Originally Posted by Ipurr4u View Post
    I don't believe in either.. I believed once... and it fell apart... then again... and nothing happened... then I began to believe a final time... only to watch that belief crushed... I believe that you think you find something that fits.. but it takes work and understanding...

    no... I do not believe in a soulmate nor do I believe in fate... not anymore...
    So you believe in creating your own destiny?

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    Quote Originally Posted by MadameX View Post
    So you believe in creating your own destiny?
    Yes I do... and I know where mine is now...



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    This was a hard one. I think there is fate (and it changes depending on the choices we make in life) and I believe everyone has a soulmate (even if they spend their life never finding him/her).
    "Do you believe in love at first sight or should I walk by again?"

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    I voted "Other."

    I don't believe in fate but I am a firm believer of karmic interactions.

    I believe this says it so much better than I could articulate it ~ I will copy and paste it:

    People Come Into Your Life For A Reason, A Season Or A Lifetime

    Unknown Author

    When you figure out which one it is,
    you will know what to do for each person.
    When someone is in your life for a REASON. . .
    It is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
    They have come to assist you through a difficulty,
    to provide you with guidance and support,
    to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually.
    They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
    They are there for the reason you need them to be.
    Then, without any wrongdoing on your part,
    or at an inconvenient time, this person will say
    or do something to bring the relationship to an end.

    Sometimes they die.
    Sometimes they walk away.
    Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
    What we must realize is that our need has been met,
    our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
    The prayer you sent up has been answered.
    And now it is time to move on.

    Then people come into your life for a SEASON....
    Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
    They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh.
    They may teach you something you have never done.
    They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
    Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.

    LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
    things you must build upon in order to have
    a solid emotional foundation.
    Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person,
    and put what you have learned to use in all
    other relationships and areas of your life.
    It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
    So often times it happens that we live our lives in chains
    and we never even know we have the key
    ...








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    I love this and it makes so much sense to me now.. I have had friends come into my life for a reason.. they didn't stay.. then there is my season... it was good while it lasted.. and there is my lifetime.. who I found and he knows I feel that we are destined to grow old fighting and laughing and being good friends... but we will never be the lovers that I wanted...

    beautiful post.. I love it..



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    I believe in both.....

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