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    Quote Originally Posted by Siren_Song View Post
    Monogamy is not for everyone.
    And science would have us believe it is not in our nature to actually be monogamous anyway.

    If married folk have affairs, and they are not in an open marriage and are discovered.. (and they are always discovered)
    the lawyers and separate living arrangement cost so much money that it makes the results of the affair, in most cases, economic suicide.

    At any rate, I prefer to be more or less monogamous because I don't like drama.
    This doesn't mean I am opposed to having a lover in all my ports of call.
    I just like to keep them geographically separate.
    One fine thing at a time, in each destination works for me, and allows everyone to feel special when they are with me.
    ...well said...

    Are you sure you're a girl?

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    Quote Originally Posted by SirGary View Post
    ...well said...

    Are you sure you're a girl?
    it's been said that I am one hell of a woman... does that count??
    Siren Song... well-behaved women rarely make history...

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    don't they make cabinets out of monogamy? Oh wait that's mahogany, never mind, I sometimes get my "wood" confused
    I meant to behave too, but there were to many other options

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    Monogamy is lovely, but so is the notion of Santa, the Toothfairy and the Easter Bunny! It takes two to be monogamous and by placing the responsibility of monogamy on more than one, your actual chances of it working out for you are cut in half! No one can rely on someone else to make something they want happen for them...

    I.e.: I want my marriage to work! Well you are 50% of the way there! Hope you find that person who can help you get to 100% and stay there, but when you rely on another person to make what you want happen you lose some control and what may result is what you want to happen will not!

    So what I am very poorly trying to say is this. If you want to be monogamous with someone give marriage a try, but don't be shocked and heartbroken (yeah I know and monkeys might fly outta my butt someday) when it doesn't work because your spouse wasn't able to be monogamous for you! We as human beings live for ourselves mostly and do what feels good at the moment too often which leads to a **** show of relationships...even moms and dads will leave their kids behind to get what they think they need in life! This maybe a cynical view point, but I am feeling realistic this morning!

    There is one thing though and that's hope...if you want monogamy never lose hope you can have it!


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    Quote Originally Posted by Beauty View Post
    Monogamy is lovely, but so is the notion of Santa, the Toothfairy and the Easter Bunny! It takes two to be monogamous and by placing the responsibility of monogamy on more than one, your actual chances of it working out for you are cut in half! No one can rely on someone else to make something they want happen for them...

    I.e.: I want my marriage to work! Well you are 50% of the way there! Hope you find that person who can help you get to 100% and stay there, but when you rely on another person to make what you want happen you lose some control and what may result is what you want to happen will not!

    So what I am very poorly trying to say is this. If you want to be monogamous with someone give marriage a try, but don't be shocked and heartbroken (yeah I know and monkeys might fly outta my butt someday) when it doesn't work because your spouse wasn't able to be monogamous for you! We as human beings live for ourselves mostly and do what feels good at the moment too often which leads to a **** show of relationships...even moms and dads will leave their kids behind to get what they think they need in life! This maybe a cynical view point, but I am feeling realistic this morning!

    There is one thing though and that's hope...if you want monogamy never lose hope you can have it!
    ...well said....

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    Quote Originally Posted by SirGary View Post
    ...well said....
    Thank You! It hurt to wrote that out and then reread and realize just how the last 10 years of my life have changed me so much! I still stand strong as an optimist, but reality has pushed its way in and I refuse to seethe world through rose colored glasses!


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    Quote Originally Posted by Beauty View Post


    Thank You! It hurt to wrote that out and then reread and realize just how the last 10 years of my life have changed me so much! I still stand strong as an optimist, but reality has pushed its way in and I refuse to seethe world through rose colored glasses!
    Realizing this will only make your next real relationship better....trust me, monogamy does exist, even with those who never believe it will happen to them....it happened to me for most of my adult life...*nods*

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